私人装修合同稿:译:望子成龙
家长应该尊重孩子的意愿和权利,尊重青少年的成长规律,以科学的态度和方式引导孩子成才,这是每个为人父母者都应该做到的。
从激发兴趣入手无论让孩子学什么,都要先启发和培养孩子对那种事物的兴趣和爱好,让他产生兴趣后自愿、主动地学习。
循序渐进对孩子的要求要合理,不能标准过高,进度过快,否则会使孩子感到学习是非常吃力的事。即使孩子对某一种事物有兴趣,在学习时间的安排和进度要求上也要以孩子能承受为前提
创造良好家庭氛围家庭环境对孩子的影响潜移默化,而且是不可忽视的。因此,家长在学习上既要注意“身教”,经常读书看报,成为孩子学习的榜样,又要注意营造浓厚的学习氛围
A family major event, educates the good child
The guardian should respect the child the wish and the right, respects the young people the growth rule, guides the child by the science manner and the way to mature, this is each manner parents all should achieve.
From the stimulation interest obtains regardless of lets child study any, all must inspire and train the child first to that kind of thing interest and the hobby, after lets him have the interest to be voluntary, to study on own initiative.
Proceeds in an orderly way must be reasonable to child's request, cannot standard excessively be high, progress excessively quickly, otherwise can make the child to feel the study is the extremely strenuous matter. Even if the child has the interest to some kind of thing, also must be able to withstand in the study time arrangement and the progress request take the child as the premise
Creates the good family atmosphere home environment the influence to influence subtly to the child, moreover is noticeable. Therefore, the guardian both wants to pay attention in the study "teaches by example", studies frequently reads a newspaper, becomes the example which the child studies, and must pay attention to the building strong study atmosphere
hope one's children will have a bright future